Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Thanksgiving, Giving Thanks, Being Thankful/Grateful

This month visiting teachers were to pick a message to give themselves....I wrote up the following for our (my comp, Denise and I) message this month....

Your Visiting Teachers, Denise Riley & Deb Allred, wish you a very HAPPY THANKSGIVING.

This month we are blessed to share a lesson from our hearts to you.  What a better time than Thanksgiving to share what is in our heart.  We want you to know that you are special to us.  We are thankful for the opportunity to be your visiting teachers.  We regret that November just seemed to fly by and with the obligations that we’ve had we will not be able to visit you this month.  We want you to know that we are here, and ever will be if you should need us…to talk, to help, to be a friend. 
Since this is my month to give the message (as Denise and I switch off) I remember seeing a little sign in a store greatly affected me, it read:
Everyday there is something to be thankful for”. 
I think I had forgotten that in some of those days before I returned to the church.  Some days that “something” may be difficult to find, but it is there if we look for it.  Every day I find more and more if things are stressful, or difficult I can be thankful for the trust our Father in Heaven and His Son placed in the Prophet Joseph to restore the gospel to the earth.  If I start there I find more and more things that come from that wonderful restoration, including you, our Sisters in Relief Society. 
President Joseph F. Smith said, “I believe that one of the greatest sins of which the inhabitants of the earth are guilty today is the sin of ingratitude, the want of acknowledgment, on their part, of God and His right to govern and control.  We see a man raised up with extraordinary gifts, or with great intelligence, and he is instrumental in developing some great principle.  He and the world ascribe this great genius and wisdom to himself.  He attributes his success to his own energies, labor and mental capacity.  He does not acknowledge the hand of God in anything connected with his success, but ignores Him altogether and takes the honor to himself; this will apply to almost all the world.  In all great modern discoveries in science, in the arts, in mechanics, and in all the material advancement of our age, the world says, ‘We have done it.’  The individual says, ‘I have done it,’ and he gives no honor or credit to God.  Now, I read in the revelations through Joseph Smith, the prophet, that because of this, God is not pleased with the inhabitants of the earth but is angry with them because they will not acknowledge HIS hand in all things.” (Gospel Doctrine, 5th ed., Salt Lake City, Deseret Book Co., 1939,  pp.270-71.)
Sisters, if I know one thing I KNOW that we in the restored church acknowledge thankfulness to a Father in Heaven who loves us, and that NOTHING we do is without HIS hand guiding us, and blessing us…at this wonderful time to reflect on our thankfulness I will remember to be grateful for, at least, one thing every single day.
We are thankful for you, and look forward to getting to know you better.  Enjoy this wonderful holiday with your family.
With love,      Denise and Deb
Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Love, Deb

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Thanksgiving

Whenever Thanksgiving comes around I miss the chaos that was always around Mom's house...when we used to have all the siblings and their children there, or when we had our family, friends who were away from their families join in dinner and my Granma and Gramps.  I miss them, MOST ESPECIALLY, at Thanksgiving and Christmas more than any other time of year.  Oh how Granma and Gramps loved those holidays.  Everyone at Mom's...on Christmas Granma and Gramps over around 6a or earlier, waiting for us to get up so they could be there when the festivities began.  Talk about love that was total, no matter what...they were (and are where they are now) the best a girl could have hoped for.  Riding in the driver's seat on Gramps' lap, thinking I was driving the car.  Going with him to the beach, fishing pole in the sand, never catching anything there but just enjoying his company, listening to his stories.  Grandma, who gave me my love for reading...going with her to the library, getting books for the week.  Going with her to her job and "helping" (probably not as well as she could have done it, but she'd instruct me when there were streaks on the massive mahogany dining table I was to polish and dust).  Going with her to A&W after to have a burger in the car from the carhop.  She'd always plan picnics for us kids with our Mom, and it would ALWAYS rain, but the car picnics were just fine with us.  Running errands with her, even going to the laundromat with her were among the most joyous times of my life.  Sitting next to her on the sofa, while she may have been talking to someone else, her hand reaching over every so often and pat my knee or the back of my hand.  Sometimes when I'm having a particularly difficult time with something I will waken in the night, and I swear, feeling her patting my hand.  I could go on and on about Eula, my sweet, dear Grandma...oh how I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE her and my Gramps, Smitty.  Oh and the great love of board games that she passed on to me, and I've played with my nieces and nephews....loved it, especially how we'd laugh playing "Uncle Wiggley" or another board game or card game....I'll definitely include more about them sometime in this blog...when my Grandma died I didn't know as much as I believe I do now about death, but I KNEW ONE THING, when I go she'll be there, RIGHT IN FRONT, arms open and heart full of love to welcome me....Love you Granma and Gramps, now and forever...oh that everyone could have Grandparents as they were to me! (Oh and Easter....the hunts in their back yard! lol)

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Auntie Deb

Anyone who knows me knows I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE being an Auntie....ever since my first honorary nephew was born, Jeremy-now 40- yes forty, I have enjoyed being an auntie...then came all the others and the blood nieces and nephews....Ricky, Christina, Matthew, Megan, Kevin, Nick, Jordan, Aaron, Danielle and Will.....they are just the bestest!
Now there are additions in spouses....Ricky's Heidi; Christina's Josh; Matt's Candace; and Nick's Alyssa....AND Ricky & Heidi's son Raiden (yep GREAT Auntie Deb); Matt & Candace's Hannah and soon another for Matt & Candace and one for Nick & Alyssa....how blessed am I !!!!!!!  LOVE YOU ALL

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

INQUIRE of the LORD, TRUST in the LORD, LOOK to the Lord in all things

This verse was the subject of my thought for the day in Megan's letter today:

1 Nephi 15:3
For he truly spake many great things unto them, which were hard to be understood, save a man should inquire of the Lord; and they being hard in their hearts, therefore they did not look unto the Lord as they ought.

This is reiterated in scripture in the Bible, the Book of Mormon and prophetic writings, talks and so on again and again....inquire of the Lord, trust in the Lord, look to the Lord in all things.

I am so inspired by a talk about Abraham Lincoln (since I was about 8 I remember him as being my most favorite President and so it is today as well!) by Mark E. Peterson, called "The Saver of Men"...what a wonderful God-fearing man.....enjoy:

I would like to talk with you about Abraham Lincoln, man of God.
President Lincoln was one of the great men of all time, and the reason for his greatness was his willingness to acknowledge and obey the Lord.
He believed in God; he lived near to God; he prayed most earnestly and knew for a fact that he was guided by divine inspiration in his important work.
Lincoln wan a devout believer in the Bible and read it often. At one time he said:
“I decided a long time ago that it was less difficult to believe that the Bible was what it claimed to be than to disbelieve it. It is a good book for us to obey.” (John Wesley Hill, Abraham Lincoln—Man of God, New York: G. P. Putnam’s Sons, 1927, 4th ed., p. 126.)
Lincoln guided the destinies of the United States during the Civil War period by using the Bible and applying its principles. He exercised faith, and prayer, and deep humility, and out of it all he learned this great fact, as he himself expressed it:
“I have had so many evidences of His [God’s] direction, so many instances when I have been controlled by some other power than my own will, that I cannot doubt that this power comes from above. … I am satisfied that, when the Almighty wants me to do, or not to do, a particular thing, he finds a way of letting me know it.” (Ibid., p. 124.)
Lincoln was convinced that, by and large, God controls the affairs of nations, and that when nations serve the Lord he blesses them; but when they do not, he withdraws his blessings.
Said he:
“It is the duty of Nations as well as of men to own their dependence upon the overruling power of God, to confess their sins and transgressions in humble sorrow, yet with assured hope that genuine repentance will lead to mercy and pardon, and to recognize the sublime truth announced in the Holy Scriptures and proven by all history, that ‘those nations only are blessed whose God is the Lord.’” (Ibid., p. 390–91.)
With this in mind he also declared that nations, like individuals, are subject to punishments and chastisements at the hand of God.
He believed that the Civil War was one of the punishments God brought upon America because it tolerated slavery. He knew that slavery was wrong, and that the nation could not endure half slave and half free, and therefore took the necessary steps to free the slaves.
One day he declared: “If we do not do right, God will let us go our own way to ruin; and … if we do right, He will lead us safely out of this wilderness, crown our arms with victory and restore our dissevered Union.” (Ibid. p. 129.)
And then, thrillingly, he said: “I know I am right, because I know that liberty is right, for Christ teaches it, and Christ is God.” (Ibid., p. 285–86; italics added.)
Again Lincoln said: “I seem to know that Providence has protected and will protect us against any fatal defeat. All we have to do is to trust the Almighty, and keep on obeying His orders and executing His will.” (Ibid., p. 126.)
“That the Almighty … directly intervenes in human affairs, is one of the plainest statements in the Bible,” the great Civil War leader declared. (Ibid., p. 124.)
Lincoln had seen examples of this very thing as he studied the scriptures. In Deuteronomy, for instance, he read that God had promised the ancient Israelites, as they emerged from Egyptian bondage, that if they would obey the divine commandments, the Lord would make of them the greatest nation on earth.
Archaeologists and historians have fully demonstrated that there were some very great and advanced nations in antiquity; but God would make of the Twelve Tribes the greatest of them all! However, there was one condition: if they would serve the Lord.
In Deuteronomy chapter twenty-eight we read: “It shall come to pass, if thou shalt hearken diligently unto the voice of the Lord thy God, to observe and to do all his commandments which I command thee this day, that the Lord thy God will set thee on high above all nations of the earth.” (Deut. 28:1; italics added.)
And again the Lord said that His purpose for ancient Israel was “to make thee high above all nations … that thou mayest be an holy people unto the Lord.” (Deut. 26:19.)
He promised them liberty and prosperity and immunity from the diseases that plagued other nations. He promised them peace and pledged that the sword would not go through their land, and furthermore that their enemies would be afraid to attack them.
“And the Lord shall make thee the head, and not the tail; and thou shalt be above only, and thou shalt not be beneath; if that thou hearken unto the commandments of the Lord thy God, which I command thee this day, to observe and do them.” (Deut. 28:13; see also Lev. 26.)
On the other hand, the Lord declared that if Israel should refuse to obey Him, He would withdraw His blessings and would send punishments upon them so that they would become the least of the nations; they would be the tail and not the head; they would lose their prosperity and eventually be scattered over the world.
And what happened to them? They gazed upon their neighboring nations and envied them and wanted to be like them. They knew that those nations were evil and idolatrous, but they seemed to have an air of popularity about them; and therefore, the Israelites, blinded by selfishness and pride, still clamored to be like them. Eventually they were—and went down to destruction as did those other nations. They apostatized from the principles God gave them to make them great. They failed to achieve their ultimate potential and suffered the bitter consequences of disobedience. It was a stupendous loss of a magnificent opportunity which could have changed the whole course of history.
The same principle held true in ancient America. Two nations occupied the Western Hemisphere. Both received commandments similar to those given to ancient Israel. Both were told that to prosper in this land they must serve the God of the land, who is Jesus Christ, or they would be swept off.
But neither nation had sufficient faith to keep the commandments. Both threw to the four winds an opportunity like that offered to ancient Israel—to be mighty in the earth. Both fell into sin, and both were destroyed.
Now what was it that Lincoln said? “It is the duty of Nations as well as of men to own their dependence upon the overruling power of God.”
And what else did he say? “Those nations only are blessed whose God is the Lord.”
That principle held true in the days of ancient Israel, it held true with the Jaredites and the Nephites, and it holds true today: only those nations are blessed whose God is the Lord!
But Lincoln taught something else. He not only said that the blessings of God are limited to those nations who acknowledge Him, but that likewise, only those individual persons who serve the Lord receive His blessings.
Remember that he said: It is the duty of both nations and individuals to acknowledge their dependence upon the overruling power of God and that they should confess their sins in humble sorrow and seek mercy and forgiveness.
What else did Lincoln say? Almost like a prophet he said: “We have been the recipients of the choicest bounties of heaven; … we have grown in number, wealth, and power as no other Nation has ever grown. But we have forgotten God. [Italics added.] We have forgotten the gracious hand which preserved us in peace and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us, and we have vainly imagined, in the deceitfulness of our hearts that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own. … We have become too self-sufficient to feel the necessity of redeeming and preserving grace, too proud to pray to the God who made us.” (Hill, p. 391.)
And then Lincoln continued: “It behooves us, then, to humble ourselves before the offended power, to confess our … sins, and to pray for clemency and forgiveness.” (Ibid.)
Have we the courage to do what Lincoln said?
Heaven knows this world is filled with sin and corruption, with pride and arrogance, with selfishness, greed, and avarice. Do we really want to live this way and endure the misery of it all? Can mankind really enjoy filth and wickedness and not seek for the freedom and exhilaration of cleanliness?
This kind of freedom can only be found in righteousness. Filth and wickedness bring only slavery, degradation, and death.
The Savior at one time spoke of the salt that gives savour to mankind. He spoke also of the salt that loses its savor. Old Testament prophets spoke of a “sweet savor,” too; but they also spoke of the savor “that stinketh,” which is the ghastly stench of wickedness.
Every nation is made up of its individual citizens. When its citizens are evil, the nation is evil. When they are righteous we have an upright nation.
Then righteousness must begin with each person. Each must regard himself as a part of the salt of the earth which is intended to give a sweet savor to his fellowmen. Especially should every follower of Christ be as salt that provides a sweet savor.
But we must remember the Lord’s warning: “If the salt have lost his savor wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.” (Matt. 5:13.)
And again, what was it Lincoln said? “If we do not do right, God will let us go on our own way to ruin.” And that is true, for God will force no man to heaven.
But the Lord was more forceful than was Lincoln, and declared that disobedience is an affront to Him. The savor that the wicked give off becomes a stench in His face. It is the savor “that stinketh.”
I ask you, how do we lose the savor that followers of the Lord should have? We lose it as we cease to serve Him, or even by becoming casual in our obedience.
For example, if we become careless about attending our meetings, do we not lose some of the savor that good salt should have?
If we neglect our prayers, our tithes and offerings, what becomes of our savor?
President Kimball the day before yesterday asked if we do not share the gospel with our neighbors, what becomes of our savor?
If we violate God’s holy Sabbath day, does that cause a sweet savor to arise from us, or do we cast a stench into His face?
If we are dishonest, unkind, or vengeful, do we not offend the Deity?
And if we lose our virtue—that priceless gift of chastity—what becomes of our savor? Is not cleanliness next to godliness? Does not filth banish purity? Does not unchastity insult the Lord? Is it not a “savor that stinketh”?
If we are guilty of infidelity in our family, or are otherwise cruel in our home, do we exude a sweet savor or a stench?
If we oppose Church policies and defy our chosen leaders, what becomes of our “sweet savor”? Can there be any sweetness in disloyalty?
If we withdraw from the Church and accept the destructive teachings of false prophets, do we not abdicate our place in the Lord’s kingdom? And does that give the Lord a sweet savor?
When speaking of the preservation of our place in the Kingdom of God, President Heber J. Grant said:
“I have seen men, no matter how high the position … they have reached, neglect their duties and turn away, and become enemies of the Church” because they did not keep the commandments of God. “My most earnest prayer,” President Grant continued, “is that every man and every woman will get it into his or her heart that they are in very deed the architects of their lives. … There are two spirits striving with all of us. There is no labor in which we engage but that there is a spirit telling us, ‘Oh, you do not need to do that; it is a waste of time, and you ought to be engaged in something else.’
“On the other hand,” President Grant continued, “there is a still small voice telling us what is right, and if we listen to that still small voice we shall grow and increase in strength and power, in testimony and in ability not only to live the gospel but to inspire others to do so.” (Improvement Era, Dec. 1937, p. 735.)
And again Lincoln said: “Remember to call upon and confide in our great and good and merciful Maker, Who will not turn away from [us] in any extremity. He notes the fall of the sparrow, and numbers the hairs of our heads. He will not forget the dying man who puts his trust in Him.” (Hill, p. 334.)
May we have sufficient common sense to trust and obey the Lord our God! It is the only way to security, both for nations and for individuals. To this I testify, in the sacred name of Jesus Christ. Amen.